Absences are inevitable — especially in child care, where illness, family emergencies, and personal responsibilities can arise with little notice.
The difference between centers that thrive and those that struggle isn’t how often absences happen — it's how ready they are when they do.
In this guide, we’ll walk through how to lead with empathy, plan for the unexpected, streamline communication, and protect both your ratios and your team’s morale.
Without a plan, absences:
But with a clear system — and the right mindset — you can absorb disruptions without losing momentum or sacrificing staff trust.
(Learn how absence planning fits into larger staffing systems in How to Build a Weekly Schedule That Keeps Your Center Fully Staffed.)
The foundation of any successful absence plan starts long before someone calls off.
It begins with building trust and empathy between leadership and staff.
When teachers trust that:
...they are more likely to:
From the beginning, work to understand the real-life barriers that might prevent staff from getting to work, like:
By understanding these pressures, you can proactively problem-solve with staff — and strengthen loyalty before issues arise.
(For more on motivating today’s workforce through trust and flexibility, see What Motivates Today’s Child Care Workforce.)
Absences are inevitable. Scrambling shouldn’t be.
A strong absence strategy starts with building two pools:
Substitutes are becoming a more widely accepted model in early childhood education — but qualified substitutes are still hard to find because of the credentialing required.
That’s why platforms like Tandem are game-changers:
Many centers onboard Tandem simply to have a backup option in their back pocket — giving leadership peace of mind without immediate cost unless used.
Having substitutes ready before you need them protects your full-time team from overwork — and helps you maintain stability even when unexpected absences stack up.
(See How Tandem Matches Substitutes to Your Center’s Needs for more on how the process works.)
Managing absences well isn't just about coverage — it’s about how communication flows.
You should not be hearing about absences via personal texts at 5:00 AM.
Clear, centralized communication:
Tips for better absence communication:
Staff should have one clear, easy method to report an absence — and leadership should be able to immediately move to Plan B without scrambling.
It’s easy to think of absence management as just a logistics problem.
But done well, it’s actually a powerful retention strategy.
When you:
…you show your teachers that their well-being matters — not just the ratio. This builds a culture of trust, support, and shared accountability, all of which reduce long-term turnover.
Like Cliff Notes, but for child care: